Body-Mind Experiencing
Body-Mind Experiencing (BME) offers a gentle, heart-centered approach that blends proven somatic therapy practices to support self-regulation in the face of overwhelming feelings, chronic stress, anxiety, depression, and self-sabotaging patterns. These patterns may once have protected us in childhood but, over time, often replaced our innate sense of connectedness with ourselves and others. Together, we work to heal early emotional wounds, balance the nervous system, rebuild inner safety, nurture resilience, and find authentic connection, with yourself and with those around you.
At the heart of this work is a process grounded in mutual connection and co-regulation. This embodied relational experience, informed by the polyvagal concept of social engagement, helps establish the safety and trust essential for a secure therapeutic relationship. In practice, this means building trust, attuning to your needs, and offering grounded presence with clear and healthy boundaries.
BME is rooted in mindful embodiment — the integration of body and mind through awareness. In relation to trauma healing, this involves gently revisiting unfinished survival responses such as fight, flight, or freeze. These experiences are carefully tracked and paced, allowing the body-mind system to complete what was once interrupted. In doing so, stored tension is released and greater physiological regulation and emotional resilience can emerge. This reflects the principles of Somatic Experiencing® (SE), the foundational somatic therapy modality at play. Alongside SE, BME also draws strategically on Bodynamic®, a body-oriented psychotherapeutic method of analysis that integrates psychological development with muscle awareness and tension patterns to address trauma, deepen self-awareness, and support personal growth through the body–mind connection.
Trauma healing unfolds through sensory awareness, breath, movement, safe exploration of emotions, and, where appropriate, therapeutic touch. BME incorporates NeuroAffective Touch® (NAT) — a unique method combining regulating, hands-on contact with a caring relational presence. NAT further addresses the attachment and relational imprints of developmental trauma wounding. In addition, BME also benefits from the Wheel of Consent framework, supporting clients in understanding and communicating their needs, boundaries, and desires.
With time, the body–mind integration process helps release the imprints of trauma held in the body and softens the grip of lifelong conditioning. In doing so, it supports the rewiring of the nervous system, strengthens the capacity to navigate stress and relationships, and opens the path toward a more grounded, resilient, self-empowered, and whole way of living.
Somatic Experiencing
SE is a trauma-focused therapy developed by Dr. Peter Levine that helps release trauma-related stress and tension stored in the body by focusing on bodily sensations rather than just thoughts or emotions. The therapy uses a “bottom-up” approach, allowing the body to guide the process of healing by becoming aware of and working through distressing physical sensations to restore the nervous system’s natural ability to self-regulate and promote resilience.
“I think it really comes down to when people are stuck, their energy is stuck. When people are able to then restore their energy, their aliveness, their vitality, that’s what healing is about.”
Trauma
“People think of trauma as being these terrible things that happened to you. Those are traumatic but they’re not the trauma. The trauma is what happens inside of you as a result of those things. What happens is the shutdown of the cells, what happens is a disconnection from the body, a shame about the Self. What happens is a loss of connection to oneself and a worldview that makes it very difficult to be in the present moment. So, trauma, ultimately, is disconnection from the Self and the present moment.”
Bodynamic
Bodynamic therapy, founded by Lisbeth Marcher, maps psychological and emotional development to specific stages of a child’s psychomotor development. When development is disrupted at a certain stage, it can create “defensive patterns” that are held in the body’s muscles. The system has a detailed understanding of how specific muscles and their states of tension or relaxation correlate with different psychological functions and emotional states.
“You can only change when you learn to love your defenses.”
Lisbeth Marcher
NeuroAffective Touch
NAT is a psychobiological psychotherapy developed by Dr. Aline LaPierre that uses gentle, intentional touch combined with talking therapy to heal early relational and developmental trauma. It employs a “bottom-up” approach by integrating somatic psychology and polyvagal theory to bypass the higher reasoning brain and access the body’s nonverbal memories and emotional states.
“The body cannot be touched without engaging the mind, and the mind cannot be engaged without affecting the body.”
Aline LaPierre
Body-Mind Experiencing: is it right for You?
How does childhood trauma typically manifest in adult psychological symptoms and behavioural patterns?
• Emotional Instability: over-the-top reactions to small triggers; sudden or frequent mood swings; numbing out, shutting down, or feeling disconnected from your emotions.
• Wounded Self-Perception: deep shame, guilt, or sense of failure; pervasive sense of hopelessness; feeling broken, unworthy, or different from others; confused or fragmented sense of who you are and what you want; memory gaps or blurred recollections from childhood.
• Relationship & Attachment Difficulties: challenges in building or sustaining close and healthy relationships; swinging between avoiding people and clinging to them; trust issues; attracted to unhealthy, unavailable, distant, or abusive partners; pulling away from social life or self-imposed isolation.
• Trauma-Related Symptoms: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) symptoms such as intrusive memories, flashbacks, or nightmares; avoidance of people, places, or situations that trigger trauma reminders; dissociation, including spacing out, feeling unreal, or disconnected from the body or surroundings; focus and memory struggles; always being on high alert for danger or being easily startled or frightened.
• Relief-Seeking & Survival Patterns: engaging in self-harm or risky behaviours, substance misuse, addictive behaviours or emotional eating; living with chronic depression or emotional numbness, anxiety disorders and social isolation.
Which of these sounds like you?
"Everything is always too much."
"I have lost interest in everything."
"I have lost interest in everything."
"When I feel rejected, it feels devastating."
"I feel all alone in this world."
"I have do it all on my own."
"I have do it all on my own."
"I don't feel comfortable in my own skin."
"I don't feel safe in this world ."
"I don't feel safe in this world ."
"I am not worthy." "No one sees me."
"No one understands me."
"No one understands me."
"I'm always trying to please others. I want to be accepted and belong."
"I don't enjoy sex (anymore) but I try to please my partner."
"There's something wrong with me."
"I'm not good enough."
"I'm not good enough."
"I lose myself in a relationship."
"My feelings get hurt easily."
"My feelings get hurt easily."
"I can't find anyone that will love me as I am."
"I feel terribly guilty all the time."
"I feel ashamed of myself."
"I feel ashamed of myself."
"I have achieved a lot but I'm never satisfied."
"My childhood still makes me feel angry and resentful."
"I have lost someone and can't overcome the grief."
"I'm very hard on myself and those around me."
Body-Mind Experiencing goes beyond trauma healing. It supports you speak your truth, unlock your creative power and express your full life-force energy — perfect for artists, professionals, and anyone ready to step into their potential.
NeuroAffective Touch offers anyone a restorative break: a way to step back from daily stress, release anxiety, and return to a state of deep relaxation and balance.
Testimonials
What Clients Say?
Working with Fernando through NeuroAffective Touch has been one of the most healing experiences of my life. I felt an immediate sense of safety in his presence, and the gentle touch helped me connect with parts of myself I had been disconnected from. With each session, I could feel my nervous system calming and old emotional pain gently releasing from my body. This work helped me access a deep sense of peace, self-compassion, and wholeness that I never thought was possible. I am genuinely grateful for the care, intuition, and skill Fernando brings to every session — it has truly changed the way I relate to myself and my body.
Sonia, 46
I have been lucky enough to have both online Somatic Experiencing and in-person NeuroAffective touch sessions with Fernando.
The online Somatic Experiencing sessions have helped me massively with learning to notice, observe, tolerate and process my emotions and body sensations. This has helped me to be more grounded and present in challenging moments in my life, and to choose healthier and more self-compassionate responses.
The in-person NeuroAffective touch sessions have also had a big impact on me by helping me learn to feel safe in the presence of another person and helping me learn how to feel and express difficult emotions, in a safe and controlled environment.
I have always found Fernando to be a genuine, sensitive, compassionate, supportive and kind person. He is a highly attuned and skilful therapist, who makes our sessions feel very safe and comfortable. This has been true both online and in person, where he is always cautious to respect boundaries and personal space, and to ensure I am comfortable with any physical contact during the session. I quickly felt able to trust him and have found our sessions together to be extremely valuable at a difficult time in my life.
The online Somatic Experiencing sessions have helped me massively with learning to notice, observe, tolerate and process my emotions and body sensations. This has helped me to be more grounded and present in challenging moments in my life, and to choose healthier and more self-compassionate responses.
The in-person NeuroAffective touch sessions have also had a big impact on me by helping me learn to feel safe in the presence of another person and helping me learn how to feel and express difficult emotions, in a safe and controlled environment.
I have always found Fernando to be a genuine, sensitive, compassionate, supportive and kind person. He is a highly attuned and skilful therapist, who makes our sessions feel very safe and comfortable. This has been true both online and in person, where he is always cautious to respect boundaries and personal space, and to ensure I am comfortable with any physical contact during the session. I quickly felt able to trust him and have found our sessions together to be extremely valuable at a difficult time in my life.
Tim, 35
I also just wanted to say a big thank you for all the support you’ve given me over the time working together. I’ve really valued our work together and found it has made a real difference, and I’ve taken away some powerful tools and shifts that I’ll continue to work with. Most of all - I’ve genuinely enjoyed the process.
Paul, 50
“I started working with Fernando after a particularly traumatic medical procedure which unearthed a whole pile of unaddressed trauma that I didn’t realise I was still holding onto. I was in a state of total emotional numbness, had lost my sense of self, my creativity, my ability to connect, I couldn’t even cry, I really was at crisis point.
Over 8 months I worked first on a weekly, then bi monthly basis with Fernando, the work we did was life changing. Fernando’s approach was gentle and encouraging, I never felt like I was pushed too far, he has a 6th sense for knowing at exactly which point to pause and feel through the difficult emotions that come up. The techniques he taught me were so empowering, for the first time in my life I actually know how to feel and work through my emotions, whereas before had often avoided them because they often became overwhelming.
This kind of work takes time, you have to trust the process and the slow unravelling as you get in touch with a deeper sense of yourself, but the commitment to the work will pay off over and over again.
I cannot recommend Fernando enough for his expertise and gentle approach to the work he does, I always felt incredibly safe and supported in our sessions (Something that is crucial as a survivor of SA), and he’s also helped me to notice my own patterns through his keen attention to the details in my behaviour.
If you are looking for a therapist who is deeply passionate about helping his clients to succeed, a therapist who can help you work through deep traumas in a compassionate manner that will never push you too far, but just the right amount to do the deep work, then Fernando is the person for you.”
Over 8 months I worked first on a weekly, then bi monthly basis with Fernando, the work we did was life changing. Fernando’s approach was gentle and encouraging, I never felt like I was pushed too far, he has a 6th sense for knowing at exactly which point to pause and feel through the difficult emotions that come up. The techniques he taught me were so empowering, for the first time in my life I actually know how to feel and work through my emotions, whereas before had often avoided them because they often became overwhelming.
This kind of work takes time, you have to trust the process and the slow unravelling as you get in touch with a deeper sense of yourself, but the commitment to the work will pay off over and over again.
I cannot recommend Fernando enough for his expertise and gentle approach to the work he does, I always felt incredibly safe and supported in our sessions (Something that is crucial as a survivor of SA), and he’s also helped me to notice my own patterns through his keen attention to the details in my behaviour.
If you are looking for a therapist who is deeply passionate about helping his clients to succeed, a therapist who can help you work through deep traumas in a compassionate manner that will never push you too far, but just the right amount to do the deep work, then Fernando is the person for you.”
Sylvia, 29
Over the past two years, working with Fernando has been proper good. Through the darkest of times, his support has been an anchor; guiding me to see that healing transcends merely revisiting past pain: it encompasses hope and the rediscovery of beauty in life.
His respect for my individuality has created a space where I am welcomed, exactly as I am. With his expertise and guidance, the intensity of the fires that raged so fiercely within me have quieted, leaving me more grounded in the rhythm of daily life. His joy is contagious; you cannot help but smile, and his playful spirit spurs alchemy, bringing lightness even to the heaviest of moments. It is clear that he cares, both for the work he does and for those he supports.
Through this journey, I have discovered the experience of connecting with another person. This bond has provided me with a sense of being heard and valued: a stark contrast to the trauma I carry within, and has become a source of quiet, steady healing that I look forward to and value greatly each week.
His respect for my individuality has created a space where I am welcomed, exactly as I am. With his expertise and guidance, the intensity of the fires that raged so fiercely within me have quieted, leaving me more grounded in the rhythm of daily life. His joy is contagious; you cannot help but smile, and his playful spirit spurs alchemy, bringing lightness even to the heaviest of moments. It is clear that he cares, both for the work he does and for those he supports.
Through this journey, I have discovered the experience of connecting with another person. This bond has provided me with a sense of being heard and valued: a stark contrast to the trauma I carry within, and has become a source of quiet, steady healing that I look forward to and value greatly each week.
Veronica, 27
I reached out to Fernando after years of cognitive/talking therapies, including EMDR/CBT. Whilst these therapies helped to comprehend the extensive past trauma which led to my CPTSD symptoms, my body continued to have responses to triggers - which made daily life challenging.
I have been working with Fernando for over a year now and he has helped me not only through some big life changes (including having a baby, moving house and cutting contact with triggering individuals), but in giving me the tools and techniques I needed to expand my 'window of tolerance'; I'm now aware of what my body can feel when any triggers arise, and have a greater capacity for tolerating these.
I will continue to heal and tough days are a part of this, but I'm now much less afraid as I feel more consistently safe each day, more confident in validating my feelings, and more able to recognise any negative bodily movement - consequently reducing its power. As a survivor of multiple abusive experiences, I can't recommend Fernando enough for both his effective practice of Somatic Experiencing work, and his reliability as a vital, safe source of help, enabling the transition from surviving to thriving.
I have been working with Fernando for over a year now and he has helped me not only through some big life changes (including having a baby, moving house and cutting contact with triggering individuals), but in giving me the tools and techniques I needed to expand my 'window of tolerance'; I'm now aware of what my body can feel when any triggers arise, and have a greater capacity for tolerating these.
I will continue to heal and tough days are a part of this, but I'm now much less afraid as I feel more consistently safe each day, more confident in validating my feelings, and more able to recognise any negative bodily movement - consequently reducing its power. As a survivor of multiple abusive experiences, I can't recommend Fernando enough for both his effective practice of Somatic Experiencing work, and his reliability as a vital, safe source of help, enabling the transition from surviving to thriving.
Amy, 30
I had a weekly session with Fernando for over 18 months. Each time, I learned to trust that whatever came up in the session would feel safe and that I would become clearer about the issue in hand - I would become more present with what was going on in my life. I grew in safety and in trust. I knew that Fernando would always be empathetic and not judgemental. I learned what it was to feel safe and to trust; for that I am truly grateful.
Freya, 56
I‘m actually feeling really, really good. I feel the work we’ve done was super powerful and cleared some major things for me in a very quick time.
Kristin, 41
I wanted to say a huge thank you, I found them [the sessions] really beneficial and I learned a lot, and I appreciated all the effort you put in.
Anna, 32
About the Heart-centred Practitioner
Fernando Kalliope brings six years of professional experience facilitating Somatic Experiencing-based sessions, supported by over two decades of training and expertise in embodiment practices. His background integrates dance, acting, voice, and improvisational arts, creating a deeply embodied and holistic approach to his work.
Fernando Kalliope is an insured professional member of the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists (ASIS) since 2016 and follows its ethical codes of practice.
Relevant Training and Certifications:
• The Wheel of Consent,
“The Art of Receiving and Giving“
a training programme with Betty Martin
(Dawlish, UK, 2015);
• Scar Tissue Remediation & Management,
a training programme with Ellen Heed and Kimberly Ann Johnson
(Dawlish, UK, 2016);
• Chakra Therapy,
two training programmes with Anodea Judith
(London, UK, and Novato, USA, 2016);
• The Art of Tantra Massage Professional Training,
16-day, one-year certification programme with
The Paths of Transformation by John Hawken
(Cernivsko, Czechia, 2017-2018);
• Somatic Experiencing,
216-hour, three-year professional certification programme
(Krakow, Poland and Lisbon, Portugal, 2017-2019);
• Myofascial Energetic Release,
‘Lower Back & Neck’ training with Nisarga Dobosz
(London, UK, 2017);
• Somatic Experiencing Bodywork
and Coupling Dynamics,
a training programme with Kathy Kain
(Weggis, Switzerland, 2019);
• Getting to the Core of Sexuality Trauma,
a training programme with Ariel Giarretto
(Stockholm, Sweden, 2019);
• SOMA-Embodiment,
120-hour certification programme
with Sônia Gomes and Marcelo Muniz
(Zurich, Switzerland and Łochów, Poland, 2019-2020);
• Bodynamic Foundation,
120-hour, one-year certification programme with Mar Barroso
(Lisbon, Portugal, 2024-2025);
• NeuroAffective Touch,
86-hour foundation certification programme with Aline LaPierre
(London, UK, 2024);
Healing at Heart Level — The Unfolding of You
An intentional journey back to one’s Self
*Together, we’ll support your nervous system in gently reconnecting with your true Self, so you can feel more at home in yourself:
You are here. And here, your being is enough. With each breath, with each heartbeat, you are reminded: you belong, you are alive, you are whole.
*Together, we’ll build trust and connection that helps you feel secure and grounded:
It’s safe to arrive just as you are. Here, you are held and welcomed. You belong. With each moment, you can attune, connect, and feel at home in your own presence.
*Together, we’ll support your heart and mind in finding their natural rhythm and ease with your emotions:
You notice how your feelings show up in your body. You allow yourself to feel and express your emotions, breathe deeply, and shine light to what was in the shadows. You connect with your life-force energy and creativity, letting it flow freely through you. You heal gradually, honouring each step. You learn to respect your limits and expand your boundaries, even in the face of fear. Over time, you build resilience and embody your personal power.
*Together, we’ll support healing past relational wounds, helping you feel grounded, supported, whole, and connected:
Nothing about you is wrong. You are whole and worthy. You open your heart to love, vulnerability, and the joy that life has to offer.
*Together, let’s take a break and sink into a restorative rest, allowing your body, heart, and mind to renew and refresh:
You surrender to stillness, letting your breath move through every cell. In this quiet, your heart, mind, and soul come into harmony.
You don’t need to have a history of trauma to benefit significantly from BME/NeuroAffective Touch!
Session Fees
EU(€)/UK(£)-
• up to 70-minute online session: €80/£80
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• up to 70-minute in-person session in Lisbon,
London (off King's Cross) & Richmond: €100/£100
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Contact Fernando
Fernando's Contacts
PT: +351 928 395 242
UK:+44 (0)7740 261421
UK:+44 (0)7740 261421
FernandoKalliope@gmail.com